
By Founa Badet, director of Intercultural Ministries
The question is “What if?” It has different layers, a different capacity of expressing itself in certain situations. What if I had been born in America? What if I were not an immigrant? What if I were living the dream? The fact of the matter is, I’m not. I’m a Haitian American born and raised in Haiti. I had to learn and relearn how to live in a different country, how to adapt to a different culture.
In some shape or form, we are all immigrants. There is a smile on my face as I write this, because almost everyone is now doing an ancestry DNA test to find out where they came from or the make-up of their ethnicity.
An immigrant is someone who comes to live permanently in a foreign country, according to the dictionary, so, even if it’s not you personally, someone in your family or your great-grands migrated from somewhere else. Often safety is the main reason for anyone to leave their homes, from either political violence, fear, hunger, or all the above.
Jesus was an immigrant, going from Bethlehem to Egypt. He was born many miles away from home, traveling from one place to the next, traveling for safety reasons. I believe if we look at immigration through the lens of the Holy Spirit, we will learn to treat strangers with hospitality, because that is what Jesus taught the disciples to do: “I was a stranger, and you invited me in” (Matthew 25:35).
Yes, we do our best as Brethren to extend hospitality. We do our best to be Jesus in the neighborhood to the level of what we are able and capable to do. However, what we can do even better is recognize the reality of immigrants, because we are all strangers until we become family.
So, let’s go back to me, growing up in Haiti. Becoming a teenager, a young adult, and an adult in the United States has been a process for my life. There were some ups and downs. There were learning curves that could have been tragic but for God. The Lord saved me from many things, many dumb things. Without guidance, one can truly be lost. The sad part is that, through my trials, I did not see the church. The church did not welcome me. The church did not understand me. The church saw me as a runaway, and some opportunities were missed in the midst.
What if we changed that as the church of today? What if we allow space for others to truly feel welcome and worthy? I realize we will never be on the same page at the same time. But we can extend ourselves to be available, interested, patient, and willing. We can ask ourselves the hard questions: Who we are called to be? How can we be the vessel to allow others to be connected? How do we view others through Christ—not the barriers before our eyes, but the light? How do we invite others to “come as you are” but ready to be transformed in the body of Christ?
Cultural competence is relationship-building. It is not an overnight scheme or microwaveable component. It is an ability, something we develop to better understand and respect the values, beliefs, and customs of people from different cultures. Effective communication and interactions are key areas to reach other cultures and adapt.
What if we genuinely put on Christ, navigating cultures together and doing our best to confidently walk beside each immigrant we come across? What would it look like? What would that feel like? We become more mindful that what makes us different is often what makes us uncomfortable. What works for one culture as a norm may not work for the other, even in the same land. What if we truly see one another?
This coming year, things will look very different for immigrants, me included. Only God knows what’s next. Some may not have a place to go back to even if deported. Some may fear for their loved ones, and some may not even know how to process the change. I encourage you to ask God what your role is. How can you be the church that sees others and is ready to respond?
This reflection was originally featured in the January/February issue of Messenger magazine. Support the faith-building and life-changing ministry of the Church of the Brethren at www.brethren.org/give .